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Giftedness.

The word “gifted” has never been used to describe me. Would have been great if it had haha. I have wondered why most, if not all, autistic people have some sort of gift or “splinter skill” , as I have heard it termed. I have been told, “Oh you do have a gift. You just haven’t found it yet.” I am 31. Think I would have found it by now if I was going to!

I am good at a few things.

Spelling.

Editing - although other people’s mistakes seem to leap out at me but my own don’t .

Writing - when I am in the mood.

Making people laugh - This is odd because I don’t mean to but sometimes I describe what I think of the simplest things and people find it hilarious. I am not offended by this.

However, with typical academic subjects that may have led me to university or college, those receive a big thumbs down.

Maths - blech.

English Literature -the books were boring. If a book is boring to me, I am not going to read it. If they had Star Trek books, maybe I would have gotten an A.

Art - I had to be told exactly what to paint/draw. Because of this, the teacher didn’t like me. I couldn’t handle this so dropped the class.

Technical Drawing - loved it but boy was I ever slow.

Science - would have loved to do Human Biology but was told by the careers counselor that I wouldn’t be able to handle it. I will never forget that. I was also scared of Bunsen Burners.

Social Studies - Look at the name of the subject. Social Studies?

In short, I failed Years 8, 9 and 12 at school.

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Now I may be going to university next year. Wow! Never thought that this would happen. Ever.

Filed by renaeden at October 13th, 2008 under Autism and me...

Don’t feel bad. I was lucky I managed to get through my school years with the lack of help I received. No one ever listened to what I wanted and always insisted that I can do the work. It was terribly overwhelming and I felt like I couldn’t trust anyone that tried to help me. I want to be able to go a community college but I want to make sure that people will be able to understand me this time and make sure I get the needs and accommodations to help me. Otherwise, it’s not going to be worth it for me if they can’t listen to me.

Comment by Misayu-chii — October 14, 2008 @ 5:57 pm

Exactly. Now I am more aware of what services are available, this makes it easier to be able to ask for help. I am lucky in this - the services were presented to our class as a whole. It also helps to know beforehand what particular services are going to be beneficial to you at the college you want to attend. You could research this on your own or have someone help you with this. I had help and I am so glad it went well.

Comment by renaeden — October 16, 2008 @ 8:26 pm

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